I had a fantastic weekend. I haven't been able to say that in a long time. It was the first weekend since the move that went perfect. We simply enjoyed each other's company with no fighting, bickering, nothing. It was bliss!! This PMA is actually working and it feels so good.
We usually hang out at the apartment on Friday nights because we have Lulu. Preston bought her some musical instruments to play. Preston is always jammin on his guitar or drum set and she loves to be a part of it. She got two tambourines, some maracas, a train whistle and this wooden fish thing. She loved all of it.
Preston finally got me on the drum set. He always tries to get me involved with his music. I always decline because I have no musical talent and I have never played an instrument before. It's embarrassing for me and the competitive side of me hates it when I can't be super good at something. It took him literally forcing me on the chair. We had watched a drum teaching video and started teaching me the 1+2+3+4. After a while I finally started to get it. Getting the kick drum, snare and high hat together was hard, specially since we don't have a high hat so I am using the rim of the snare instead. I mean it's the simplest drum beat ever but I learned it. I actually was playing an instrument the right way. It felt so good once I had it down. Now I still play at a very slow pace. I didn't think that I was playing that slow until he started playing his guitar to my beat and realized that it was super fucking slow. Even when I was playing as fast as I could without getting off beat, it was still way slower than it needs to be, but hey I just learned. It was way funner then I ever thought it would be. I'd like to keep trying and maybe learn some more as long as Preston has the patience to teach me and play slow with me.
On Saturday the three of us went to the Wetlands Nature Park. It's like a natural spring preserve that we have here in Vegas. I took a bunch of pictures. I'll make a post about it later. We had a good time. The weather was cloudy, hot and humid. We did a lot of walking and Lulu had a blast running around.
After dropping Lulu off to her other parents we went home and relaxed a little. We had a short jam sesh and then Preston dyed my hair. A while back I had bleached the under half of my hair and dyed it teal. Since then the under half has been really damaged. The first time I dyed it red a month ago, I didn't notice any more serious damage. Well this time after I got out of the shower, chunks of my hair was coming out. I don't know what caused this to happen this time and why it didn't happen the last time. Thankfully, it's all under my healthy hair so it's not that noticeable. I'm debating if I should just cut the under half off or just let it keep breaking off. But I am in love with my red hair and don't want to have to stop dying it.
Anyways after that, we had another jam sesh. I'm really enjoying being able to play music with Preston. It's something that I can relate to him now. I think he enjoys it just as much. We were supposed to drive out to Rhyolite, NV which is an abandoned town about an hour in a half out of Vegas. But after our long day of walking and jammin out, Preston was pretty exhausted. Weirdly I was full of energy and it's usually the other way around. I didn't want to go on our little adventure unless we were both up for it and had the energy to be out all night, so we decided to save it for another weekend and veg out on Mexican food and netflix. I was totally ok with that, as it was starting to get late and I was slowly growing more and more tired.
On Sunday Preston took his usual trip to the swap meet. I decided I was going to have a super lazy day. While he was gone I watched more of this show that I am loving at the moment called "The Killing". Preston got back and with him he had a cup of Mexican corn for me. Then we relaxed together for a little bit before another jam sesh took place.
Preston had band practice scheduled for the night so that's what he did , while I continued to watch my show and have a ridiculous solo munchy sesh. Talk about being a lazy fat ass. I ate all of it except for a half a bag of the corn nuts. Ya my belly wasn't feeling so good this morning.
What did you guys do over the weekend? Anything interesting you want to share, or uninteresting?!?!
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Monday, April 8, 2013
Friday, April 5, 2013
PMA Starts Now / Life Update
This year has been a pretty big emotional roller coaster for me. It seems like anytime everything is going as it should be, something ends up happening to fuck it all up. I've been trying really hard to be a positive person. It's definitely been a struggle. Numerous break downs, emotionally unstable at times.
But you know what? Fuck all of that. Life is way to short to be dwelling about things, trying to control things that cannot be controlled, being sad, sleeping too much, being insecure, being jealous when I have no reason to be,listening to music that brings me down. I'm putting my foot down. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.
It's time to be happy. It's time to make changes. It's time to be the best fiancee I can be. It's time to be the best Mom I can be. It's time to smile all the time. It's time to let loose and live my life. It's time to explore the unknown, take it all in.
I am going to stop taking things for granted and start taking advantage of all of the good things in my life. Like this beautiful little girl to whom I get to be a part time Mom to. Being a Mom is still so new to me but she is perfect, she's artistic, she's funny, she's always happy, and the best part she is always telling me how much she loves me. She's my little ballerina princess who loves to dance, play music and is always wanting tattoos. How can you not fall in love with that face?
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Then there is this guy who is my best friend, my soul mate, who I get to marry in July and spend the rest of my life with. He deserves the best and I need to give him that. We have been through a lot but we have always survived. We love each other to the moon and back. He is so positive, always trying to see the best in any situation, someone who has more confidence in me then I do with myself, he pushes me to be a better person and I strive to be more like him. I love you Preston Scott Ozell Leigh.
Work is still as slow as ever for me. It seems like the engineers are getting a lot more work these days. We have hired a couple new guys, so that is a good sign. But I don't see my job getting busier anytime soon. So just been working on my years worth of scanning in correspondence and unstapling for hours on end. Thank goodness for music right. Lately I have been listening to a lot of Atmosphere and Sage Francis. Preston hates hip hop so I only get to listen to my underground artists while at work. I do switch it up though. Lately it's been Rob Zombie, a lot of Garage Rock. If you haven't listened to any Garage Rock and you love upbeat super positive, little surfy sounding with a bit of a punk sound you should try listening to some of these bands. I'll link you to one song from each band.. Nobunny, The Black Lips, Reigning Sound, FIDLAR, King Tuff.
If you check them out and you like what you hear and would like some more recommendations, give me a shout!! Preston got me into Garage Rock. I had never listened to it before. Anytime I am in a downer mood and throw some of this on, it never fails to put me in a fantastic mood.
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I have been obsessed with eating fruit parfaits. The ones from Fresh and Easy are the tits. Yummy yogurt with strawberries, blueberries and granola. Mmmm So good. When I have a sweet tooth they are always my go to food and it's healthy.
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I know that was kind of gushy mushy, but sometimes I gotta get personal with ya'll. Let's lighten it up a little bit.
Currently I am reading Lords of Salem by the masterful Mr. Rob Zombie. I am a little more than half way through. It's really good so far. The only thing I don't like is his writing is pretty elementary. It takes some time to get used to. But it's his first book, so can't judge him too bad. Super excited for the movie to come out. I love that he always puts his wife Sheri Moon Zombie in his movies cuz she is one super fine gal. They make the sexiest couple ever don't you think?
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If you check them out and you like what you hear and would like some more recommendations, give me a shout!! Preston got me into Garage Rock. I had never listened to it before. Anytime I am in a downer mood and throw some of this on, it never fails to put me in a fantastic mood.
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Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend. I have some fun stuff planned. What's going on with you guys? Any new things you want to share, music I should be listening too? Send me a line. I'd like to get to know some of you, I don't bite!!
Thursday, March 21, 2013
Appreciation: The Small, The Big and Everything In Between
This year hasn't been the best for us. We are still in the house hunting process which started back in August. Its a never ending shitty cycle of submitting offers and getting denied because of cash buyers. January hit 6 months until our wedding. We went through a big rough move in February. Our lives haven't been exactly how we would have wanted it and we haven't been the happiest couple because of all these changes. Things were a bit awry for a while.
Now Spring has officially sprung and things are starting to look up again. The wedding planning is well on it's way. I've been meaning to make a wedding post. That will come soon.
This blog has helped me a lot. Being able to write about things whether they are important things or not has been keeping me in good spirits. Preston and I are reconnecting more and more every day. So that being said, I wanted to make an appreciation post about everything little to big that I have appreciated lately.
- The weather turning nice earlier than usual
- Drinking beer and smoking cigarettes on our patio with Preston having small talk.
- On my commute to work I get a whiff of pine trees in the same spot.
- When day turns into twilight. The sky is the color of clear deep ocean.
- Desert sunsets
- Our neighborhood bar and walking to and from.
- When Preston calls me Darlin.
- Cooking dinner again.
- Taking pictures
- Having a job that somewhat allows me to blog, tumble and print my wedding invites.
- Preston, Preston, Preston
- Cuddles
- Birds chirping in the morning.
- My birthday is this Saturday and we get to beach it up and camp!
- Getting comments on my blog posts. Thanks
- The rain we got a few weeks back. It's very seldom here in the desert.
- Netflix. Before we moved we had no internet or cable so this has been a blessing.
- Thanks to the IRS for giving me back a little more money than I was expecting. Tattoo Shop I will see you soon.
- My mom for helping out with house hunting and paying for some of our wedding.
- My group of girls that are trying their hardest to make this wedding planning as easy as possible for me cuz this just aint my thang.
- Matching bracelets I got for Preston and I.
- Letting go of things
- Getting hugs from behind while in the kitchen.
- Getting away from the dark cloud.
- Being able to walk around in my underwear.
- Getting back to reading on a regular basis.
- This blog.
What are you guys appreciating these days??
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Closer to 30
I am turning 26 this coming Saturday. Now shower me with presents and love please. :) . I have always been one that is obsessed with my birthday. That girl whose birthday lasts a week and everyone must oblige to that! But that all ended last year. When I turned 25 I had a minor quarter life crisis. I was freaking out. I realized that I have been alive for a quarter of a century. I know that sounds really ridiculous but until then I always still felt like a kid. I was always the baby in my group. I was battling the fact that I had nothing to show for those last 25 years. I was feeling like a failure. Life had caught up to me real quick. I had never had these thoughts before. I really didn't want to be 25. Staying at the age of 24 would have been suffice. And now i find myself at the age of 26. I am officially closer to 30.. Waaahhhhh....But life must go on and we all age right? Let me present to you a little timeline of my life.
Not much has changed huh? I still feel I look the same now as I did when I was in my teen years. It's that Asian blood in me, keeping my look pristine!!
Anyway, I have had a themed birthday party for the last 4 years. They have all been a major success and extremely fun. But this year I decided not too. So I decided instead of throwing a huge party I want to step away from the chaos in my life. Preston and I decided to take a short trip to Santa Monica. The plan is that Saturday we will leave around midnight and arrive at the beach just before sunrise. On the beach watching the sunrise with my favorite person, best friend and fiancee. Romantic right?? Hopefully our plans work out and we play on the pier all day and maybe find a place to camp for the night then head home Monday. I'll let you know how it goes!! I am really excited to get away with Preston. Our lives have been really hectic and this will be a nice way to reconnect.
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Not much has changed huh? I still feel I look the same now as I did when I was in my teen years. It's that Asian blood in me, keeping my look pristine!!
Anyway, I have had a themed birthday party for the last 4 years. They have all been a major success and extremely fun. But this year I decided not too. So I decided instead of throwing a huge party I want to step away from the chaos in my life. Preston and I decided to take a short trip to Santa Monica. The plan is that Saturday we will leave around midnight and arrive at the beach just before sunrise. On the beach watching the sunrise with my favorite person, best friend and fiancee. Romantic right?? Hopefully our plans work out and we play on the pier all day and maybe find a place to camp for the night then head home Monday. I'll let you know how it goes!! I am really excited to get away with Preston. Our lives have been really hectic and this will be a nice way to reconnect.
Thursday, March 14, 2013
Documenting Downtown Las Vegas - Part 2
Hope you guys enjoyed Part 1. Here lies Part 2.
Vegas has so many places I want to explore. I want to find the hidden gems of my city that you don't here much about. How do you go about finding these places? I'll keep thinking on that one.. Until then, have some more awesome documentation!
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| The Golden Nugget keeps their mirrors squeaky clean |
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| If you are over 350 lbs you eat here for FREE (Coronary Dog looks like shit.. literally) |
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| Love the Pulp Fiction rip off |
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| One of the bars I love. |
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| This used to be an old medical center that they turned into a place for local artists to sell their art. I love that they kept the Medical Center sign up. |
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| Who doesn't love a huge red door? |
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| This bum was so excited for me to take pictures of his tattoos. |
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| Strolling through alley ways |
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| Sweet bathroom |
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| New fancy casino. Isn't Vintage supposed to represent something old. But yet they called this brand new fancy place vintage. Umm whaaatt?? |
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| I wonder what this place will turn into. |
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| Witnessed a video in the making. Just before the camera man put the camera right in my face while walking by. I wonder if I'll be in it. Probably not. Damn
Part 3 coming soon!
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Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Documenting Downtown Las Vegas - Part 1
Downtown is a place we frequent a lot, but it is always at night and I am usually on the drunk side. I really love downtown. It is definitely tourist infested, but also a place that us locals, young and old, like to go. It's a place where you can be yourself and not be judged. If you love to people watch this is the place to do it. You get your wasted tourists, street performers of all different kinds, junkies, bums, cover bands, etc. You name it, and you will probably see it at one point. You can walk freely while drinking the alcohol of your choice. There are liquor stores up and down Fremont Street Experience. You can buy tall cans for $2 instead of your usual $5-$7 beers you get on the Strip.
Downtown Las Vegas is the only place that has the little bit of culture this town has left. Our tiny art district lies in this area. It is Old Las Vegas that will soon turn into something very close to the Strip. This breaks my heart. Everything in this city gets blown up and rebuilt. Constantly trying to out do it self. Our trip downtown yesterday was proof of this.
I have wanted to document downtown during the day for quite awhile now. I knew it would be a completely different atmosphere than what I am used to going at night. Now I haven't been down there in about a month or two and I'm not sure if I just never noticed the major changes that were being made or all of these changes were very new, but I was shocked when I saw all of these old places being torn down, new places already established. Some of the new bars I saw seemed like they definitely fit in the downtown atmosphere, but there were a couple of new places that just did not belong. They're trying to make it way too fancy and to me it just doesn't seem right. I can't even bare to imagine what this place will look like in the next 10 years.
Until then, I will take advantage of my favorite part of my city. Preston and I had a blast on our photo adventure yesterday. We walked up and down the experience and through alley ways with tall cans in hand, talking, laughing, people watching. We hadn't done something like that with just him and I in awhile and I am really glad we got the chance. He is very supportive of my picture taking and I appreciate his patience when it comes to the constant stopping and making him hold my beer to get a shot. Thanks babe for your support and patience. I love knowing you had just as much fun as I did.
Alrighty then... Lets get to the pictures shall we. I am making this a 3 part series because there are so many pictures I want to share with you guys, but I don't want to overwhelm anyone by putting them in one post. So here goes Part 1 of 3.
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Keep an eye out for Part 2 and Part 3..
p.s. We took a lot of video throughout the night as well. As soon as we learn how to video edit and all that, we're going to make our first movie. This will be exciting!!
Monday, March 4, 2013
Swap Meet Adventure
Preston and I went on a swap meet adventure yesterday. We moved to North Las Vegas and the swap meet just so happens to be right across the street. This is our only outdoor swap meet in town. It is ridiculously huge. You can pretty much find anything there. It is one ginormous garage sale. You can find anything from used tv remotes, to furniture, to clothes, tools, car parts, etc.
One thing we were trying to look for was an old dial phone so Preston can take the mic out of it and use it to make a beer can mic. We thought for sure that we would find one. I mean everything you can think of gets sold here but we did not find one chord phone. Not even one. Can you believe that? But boy did they have a shit ton of phone chargers, cordless phones and cell phones. We were rather shocked by this.
The food that they sell there is rather ethnic. I kept asking Preston, what is that? and what is that? wow doesn't that look good? Preston has talked about the Mexican corn carts that go around neighborhoods and sell their delicious corn that is supposed to be served with mayo, cheese, butter and chili pepper. I had never had one before and thought this would be a good chance to try it. So I finally saw a couple of people eating them at the swap meet. Now I have always been against eating corn on the cob because i have a built in retainer and can't handle it when food gets stuck in it, but I was willing to make an exception to try this corn that everyone talks about. After a couple hours of walking I was getting hungry and was destined to find where the corn was being sold. We finally found it (right at the entrance) how we missed it, I'm not sure. Anyway we were at the counter and I realized they were selling the corn not only on the stick but also already cut up and put in a cup. How perfect for me right? So I got mine in a cup and Preston got his on a stick. They put everything in the cup that they do on a stick. IT WAS ABSOLUTELY DELICIOUS. Ok enough rambling, here are some pictures from our day!
One thing we were trying to look for was an old dial phone so Preston can take the mic out of it and use it to make a beer can mic. We thought for sure that we would find one. I mean everything you can think of gets sold here but we did not find one chord phone. Not even one. Can you believe that? But boy did they have a shit ton of phone chargers, cordless phones and cell phones. We were rather shocked by this.
The food that they sell there is rather ethnic. I kept asking Preston, what is that? and what is that? wow doesn't that look good? Preston has talked about the Mexican corn carts that go around neighborhoods and sell their delicious corn that is supposed to be served with mayo, cheese, butter and chili pepper. I had never had one before and thought this would be a good chance to try it. So I finally saw a couple of people eating them at the swap meet. Now I have always been against eating corn on the cob because i have a built in retainer and can't handle it when food gets stuck in it, but I was willing to make an exception to try this corn that everyone talks about. After a couple hours of walking I was getting hungry and was destined to find where the corn was being sold. We finally found it (right at the entrance) how we missed it, I'm not sure. Anyway we were at the counter and I realized they were selling the corn not only on the stick but also already cut up and put in a cup. How perfect for me right? So I got mine in a cup and Preston got his on a stick. They put everything in the cup that they do on a stick. IT WAS ABSOLUTELY DELICIOUS. Ok enough rambling, here are some pictures from our day!
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