I had a fantastic weekend. I haven't been able to say that in a long time. It was the first weekend since the move that went perfect. We simply enjoyed each other's company with no fighting, bickering, nothing. It was bliss!! This PMA is actually working and it feels so good.
We usually hang out at the apartment on Friday nights because we have Lulu. Preston bought her some musical instruments to play. Preston is always jammin on his guitar or drum set and she loves to be a part of it. She got two tambourines, some maracas, a train whistle and this wooden fish thing. She loved all of it.
Preston finally got me on the drum set. He always tries to get me involved with his music. I always decline because I have no musical talent and I have never played an instrument before. It's embarrassing for me and the competitive side of me hates it when I can't be super good at something. It took him literally forcing me on the chair. We had watched a drum teaching video and started teaching me the 1+2+3+4. After a while I finally started to get it. Getting the kick drum, snare and high hat together was hard, specially since we don't have a high hat so I am using the rim of the snare instead. I mean it's the simplest drum beat ever but I learned it. I actually was playing an instrument the right way. It felt so good once I had it down. Now I still play at a very slow pace. I didn't think that I was playing that slow until he started playing his guitar to my beat and realized that it was super fucking slow. Even when I was playing as fast as I could without getting off beat, it was still way slower than it needs to be, but hey I just learned. It was way funner then I ever thought it would be. I'd like to keep trying and maybe learn some more as long as Preston has the patience to teach me and play slow with me.
On Saturday the three of us went to the Wetlands Nature Park. It's like a natural spring preserve that we have here in Vegas. I took a bunch of pictures. I'll make a post about it later. We had a good time. The weather was cloudy, hot and humid. We did a lot of walking and Lulu had a blast running around.
After dropping Lulu off to her other parents we went home and relaxed a little. We had a short jam sesh and then Preston dyed my hair. A while back I had bleached the under half of my hair and dyed it teal. Since then the under half has been really damaged. The first time I dyed it red a month ago, I didn't notice any more serious damage. Well this time after I got out of the shower, chunks of my hair was coming out. I don't know what caused this to happen this time and why it didn't happen the last time. Thankfully, it's all under my healthy hair so it's not that noticeable. I'm debating if I should just cut the under half off or just let it keep breaking off. But I am in love with my red hair and don't want to have to stop dying it.
Anyways after that, we had another jam sesh. I'm really enjoying being able to play music with Preston. It's something that I can relate to him now. I think he enjoys it just as much. We were supposed to drive out to Rhyolite, NV which is an abandoned town about an hour in a half out of Vegas. But after our long day of walking and jammin out, Preston was pretty exhausted. Weirdly I was full of energy and it's usually the other way around. I didn't want to go on our little adventure unless we were both up for it and had the energy to be out all night, so we decided to save it for another weekend and veg out on Mexican food and netflix. I was totally ok with that, as it was starting to get late and I was slowly growing more and more tired.
On Sunday Preston took his usual trip to the swap meet. I decided I was going to have a super lazy day. While he was gone I watched more of this show that I am loving at the moment called "The Killing". Preston got back and with him he had a cup of Mexican corn for me. Then we relaxed together for a little bit before another jam sesh took place.
Preston had band practice scheduled for the night so that's what he did , while I continued to watch my show and have a ridiculous solo munchy sesh. Talk about being a lazy fat ass. I ate all of it except for a half a bag of the corn nuts. Ya my belly wasn't feeling so good this morning.
What did you guys do over the weekend? Anything interesting you want to share, or uninteresting?!?!
Monday, April 8, 2013
Saturday, April 6, 2013
Links For You
Hey Yo, it's the weekend!! Have some Linkage.
The Dwarves of Auschwitz
Do You Hate the Sound of Your Own Voice I know I do. I sound like dude.
Want, Need, Get, Forget I'm queen of jumping on things before thinking them out. Not a good habit.
Gala and Nubby Dancing in Paris This is just the cutest thing.
Year of the Witch Coincidence that I am currently reading Lords of Salem??
Inside the Gowanus Batcave I just love abandoned places, specially when they are supposed to be haunted. I like to freak myself out. It's just too fun.
Top 10 Girl Code Rules I agree with all of these.
Awesome Thrift Finds
Q&A with animal photographer Sharon Montrose I fell in love with this. I would die to have her job and she seems like a person I would like in real life.
Self Love/Self Hate
French Bulldog with Cleft Palate Perfectly Imperfect.. Too Cute
20 of the Most Drugged-Out Rock Stars
Victoria's Street Photography in Tijuana When I used to compete in ice skating, we had a competition in San Diego every year and we would always visit Tijuana. This was a nice little flash back.
A guy tattooed porn sites on his face so his kids wouldn't starve
Thank You: Nova, Jezebel, Gala, Courtney, Ev'Yan, Victoria and Vice
Friday, April 5, 2013
PMA Starts Now / Life Update
This year has been a pretty big emotional roller coaster for me. It seems like anytime everything is going as it should be, something ends up happening to fuck it all up. I've been trying really hard to be a positive person. It's definitely been a struggle. Numerous break downs, emotionally unstable at times.
But you know what? Fuck all of that. Life is way to short to be dwelling about things, trying to control things that cannot be controlled, being sad, sleeping too much, being insecure, being jealous when I have no reason to be,listening to music that brings me down. I'm putting my foot down. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.
It's time to be happy. It's time to make changes. It's time to be the best fiancee I can be. It's time to be the best Mom I can be. It's time to smile all the time. It's time to let loose and live my life. It's time to explore the unknown, take it all in.
I am going to stop taking things for granted and start taking advantage of all of the good things in my life. Like this beautiful little girl to whom I get to be a part time Mom to. Being a Mom is still so new to me but she is perfect, she's artistic, she's funny, she's always happy, and the best part she is always telling me how much she loves me. She's my little ballerina princess who loves to dance, play music and is always wanting tattoos. How can you not fall in love with that face?
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Then there is this guy who is my best friend, my soul mate, who I get to marry in July and spend the rest of my life with. He deserves the best and I need to give him that. We have been through a lot but we have always survived. We love each other to the moon and back. He is so positive, always trying to see the best in any situation, someone who has more confidence in me then I do with myself, he pushes me to be a better person and I strive to be more like him. I love you Preston Scott Ozell Leigh.
Work is still as slow as ever for me. It seems like the engineers are getting a lot more work these days. We have hired a couple new guys, so that is a good sign. But I don't see my job getting busier anytime soon. So just been working on my years worth of scanning in correspondence and unstapling for hours on end. Thank goodness for music right. Lately I have been listening to a lot of Atmosphere and Sage Francis. Preston hates hip hop so I only get to listen to my underground artists while at work. I do switch it up though. Lately it's been Rob Zombie, a lot of Garage Rock. If you haven't listened to any Garage Rock and you love upbeat super positive, little surfy sounding with a bit of a punk sound you should try listening to some of these bands. I'll link you to one song from each band.. Nobunny, The Black Lips, Reigning Sound, FIDLAR, King Tuff.
If you check them out and you like what you hear and would like some more recommendations, give me a shout!! Preston got me into Garage Rock. I had never listened to it before. Anytime I am in a downer mood and throw some of this on, it never fails to put me in a fantastic mood.
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I have been obsessed with eating fruit parfaits. The ones from Fresh and Easy are the tits. Yummy yogurt with strawberries, blueberries and granola. Mmmm So good. When I have a sweet tooth they are always my go to food and it's healthy.
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I know that was kind of gushy mushy, but sometimes I gotta get personal with ya'll. Let's lighten it up a little bit.
Currently I am reading Lords of Salem by the masterful Mr. Rob Zombie. I am a little more than half way through. It's really good so far. The only thing I don't like is his writing is pretty elementary. It takes some time to get used to. But it's his first book, so can't judge him too bad. Super excited for the movie to come out. I love that he always puts his wife Sheri Moon Zombie in his movies cuz she is one super fine gal. They make the sexiest couple ever don't you think?
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If you check them out and you like what you hear and would like some more recommendations, give me a shout!! Preston got me into Garage Rock. I had never listened to it before. Anytime I am in a downer mood and throw some of this on, it never fails to put me in a fantastic mood.
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Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend. I have some fun stuff planned. What's going on with you guys? Any new things you want to share, music I should be listening too? Send me a line. I'd like to get to know some of you, I don't bite!!
Thursday, April 4, 2013
Spring Foliage
Spring is here and if you know anything about Las Vegas, NV, Spring does not last very long. I wanted to take advantage and get some foliage shots before the weather gets miserably scorching hot and all of the pretty flowers die a horrible death. Enjoy the prettiness!!
I was trying so hard to get a bee in good focus but it's nearly impossible. They just don't stop buzzin around them buggers.
Tuesday, April 2, 2013
A Trifecta of Deliciousness
Ever since I watched the scene in Pineapple Express about the cross joint and how he explains it as the smoke converges creating a trifecta, I have been obsessed with the word. It's like the coolest fucking word ever. Say it in your head with meaning. Waiting... Now tell me you don't agree with me. Super rad word right.. I try to use it as much as possible cuz I'm a dork like that and get hooked on certain words.. ha ok maybe I'm the weirdo, I don't know but watch the clip it's hilarious.
Now let's talk about what a perfect Trifecta could be.
COFFEE, CHOCOLATE BAR DONUT and a CIGARETTE.
A Trifecta of deliciousness.
The three just go hand in hand. Breakfast of champions? I don't know if I would take it that far but it really is a perfect mix to get me started in the morning. Usually I do not like to take bites of food and take a drink of something when I am still chewing. It leaves your food soggy in your mouth and changes the taste of it but that's just not the case with coffee and donuts. I love taking a bite out of my chocolate bar and taking a big swig of my coffee. Talk about mouth orgasm. It's soo good. Then to complete the Trifecta, after eating my donut and drinking my coffee I inhale the best cigarette of the morning. Do you guys have any weird Trifecta type things you would like to share?
Why does blogger not recognize Trifecta as a word?
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